My mother-in-law officially retires this Friday, and I'm very excited for her. She will get a much deserved break. That said, she told C when they spoke last night that she plans to come visit us about every 6 weeks or so. I don't know if I can handle that. Seriously. There are lots of advantages to having her visit that often.
- Wild Man would get to see one of his grandparents on a regular basis.
- She and I might be able to develop a closer relationship.
- It would be nice to see family often.
- We would have regular access to a reliable, trustworthy, and free babysitter.
I told C that if this happens we would have to have a serious conversation about guidelines and boundaries she would be expected to follow. Off the top of my head these would include
- respecting our life choices
- not questioning our parenting choices/decisions
- not giving Wild Man a lot of junk food/fast food crap to eat
- refraining from bad mouthing me to C (yes, she continues to do this even though he has repeatedly asked/told her not to.)
- not involving us in family drama
That is just what I can think of off the top of my head. Suffice to say, such visits would be welcome, but they would also be really stressful. Maybe she'll just come every 3 months or so. . .
