Teacher, mother, writer, wife, academic, friend. . . trying to juggle all the pieces without losing any.
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
More than others
When I was working on my doctorate, I was fortunate enough to find my people. By that I mean, I was in a place with like-minded people who were doing what I was doing. I realize this is a side-effect of graduate work. These people, however, were much more than an intellectual cohort, a term that gets bandied around these parts a lot. They were, as I said, my people. Initially, they were my friends, but they became my family. We helped each other through a lot of shit. Some academic, some not. I miss these people, most of whom are now finished with their graduate degrees and now live all over the country, every. single. day. Today, I am missing them more than I do most days. And you know who you are.
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I keep judging the people I'm meeting by our old group of friends. I want intellectual, interesting, scholar, parents. They're harder to find than one might think. I also want that instant-or near instant-sense of community we had. We were lucky then and I miss everyone too.
I love you both. So, so much.
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